What stopped me?

Posted on November 17, 2009

I was looking back at how few posts I have actually been submitting during the month of November and I am appalled.   I was so ready to conquer the blogging world again this month at its outset, but that got derailed by my baby getting sick, then myself, then the hubby.  I actually have been accomplishing a lot and really looking forward to what the very near future holds.

I finally recorded a couple of videos of personal live performances of You Grant Wish, a capella, and my rendition of ‘If I Could” with some accompaniment music.  My hubby figured out how to get “If I Could” up on YouTube, but I haven’t had a chance to figure out how to input it into my website.  Babysteps…I’ve gotta keep telling myself that i just need to take babysteps when I do things.  I have no nanny, so its just me, so things takes a little longer to get done, so that I can still spend quality time with the family.

I am so excited because the hubby expressed his interest in producing some music for me.  He is excellent at making beats.  So stayed tuned for where this all leads.  We are looking into the cost of putting together a home based studio, and also planning to take some classes on studio engineering and producing, etc… You know I am excited about the possibility of being able to complete a song without waiting to try to get some studio time.  I also can’t wait to see what my baby girl does when she is surrounded by music as she grows up.

Music Mama – How to Be A Successful Indie Artist and a Mom

Posted on July 9, 2009

There are so many of my friends now, who are singers, songwriters, and musicians who are also mothers of young children. We all talk about continuing to make our livelihood with our passions for music, but how do we juggle the working in the music business without the long days, months, or even years on the road, away from our kids?

Many of us are turning to our local markets for tour dates, and performing on the weekends, taping our shows, then airing the performances via YouTube. We also connect the video to our individual websites. So, our fans that we have developed around the globe can still get a taste of our live performances. Here are some of the steps these Music Mamas are taking to keep their dreams alive and still be great moms.

  1. Scheduling productive tasks and Every Day iInclude some “me” time in there mommies.
  2. Write your 30-60-90 day, 1-3-5 year goals.
  3. Perform at least once a month.
  4. Build a website to showcase your music. If you can do it yourself use www.homestead.com or www.vistaprint.com on top of your myspace page.
  5. Start a blog about you and your music. Sign up for www.thenicheblogger.com to learn how.
  6. Video tape your performances or your recording in the studio and post on YouTube and your website.
  7. Sell your music online using www.Tunecore.com and www.CdBaby.com
  8. Read and sing to your children almost every night.
  9. Include a date night each week with your significant other.
  10. Always be your authentic self and don’t overwhelm yourself. You can still take baby steps to reach that milestone.